Date: 1st April
Title: Family
How true it is that we often don't appreciate what we have until it is gone. This has been brought home to me in the past few weeks with respect to family life. Towards the end of February my dad was taken ill and eventually admitted to hospital where after nearly 2 weeks he died. It was my privilege to take both his funeral service and a memorial service for him.
I wasn't sure if I could. I wanted to because Dad had wanted me to; but it was a tough call. In the morning of the funeral service I was sat quietly thinking about what I had planned to say and how I was going to say it. The funeral directors would arrive in an hour and I thought; "I can't do this." I didn't have to say anything about dad. he had made it clear that I was to speak only of Christ and the gospel that he loved and proclaimed all his life.
My text was Phil. 1:21 "For to me to live is Christ to die is gain" So at least that would be a bit easier. But as tears welled up I really struggled to believe I could do this. As I asked God for strength I was suddenly aware of our Church family praying. I was not alone, they were there for me and God's strength would be more than sufficient; and so it proved to be.
God was gracious there, and at the memorial service 2 days later. The sun shone and several people gave testimony and payed tribute to Dad's faithful ministry, his prayer life, his passion for sharing the gospel, for the great foundation his preaching and teaching had given to their life.
What was also so encouraging to me was to hear in conversation with friends we had not met up with for years, of how in recent months Dad still had a pastoral care and heart for so many people. He was 90 and he not only began well but he finished well. May we never give up...
I guess when our family is alive and with us we can so easily take them for granted. In the last few days since dad's death I found myself thinking so much about many amazing times my sister and I shared with him and mum and thanking God so much for the privilege we had of having them as our mum and dad. They prepared us for life and they prepared us for heaven - and one day we shall be reunited with them in the Lord's presence.
Thank God too for His family. The Church, Christ's bride, as it exists and operates in the power of the Holy Spirit it surely is the most wonderful thing and the best place to be in all the world. It too equips us for life and eternity.
Treasure your family - personal and Church. Thank God for them both. Commit to both and like me your memories will be incredibly wonderful and blessed. |